This week marks the beginning of a new school year in New York and with it comes much excitement. I know my son will be thrilled to reunite with his friends, many of whom have been away most of the summer. It is a time of new beginnings, new teachers, new school supplies, new sneakers. There is a rush, some anticipation, a jolt of energy that comes with the back to school season.
And it is not only this way for the kids. As parents, we get excited for the year of learning ahead. We welcome the routines and we are on the edge of our seats, hoping the transition will go smoothly and be full of ease for everyone involved.
Most of all, we cannot believe the time has flown by - they are starting kindergarten, third grade, high school. How could it be possible? They need to feel both our confidence and our questions. In feeling both, we stay connected to them, united, and close.
It is important to create space to welcome all of the elements of the back to school transition - the fun parts and the challenges. Getting older is hard for everyone and we need to let our children know that all of their feelings make sense, that we, in fact, have and have had the same sorts of feelings.
There is an opportunity here for parents to let our children know that the spectrum of our feelings is healthy. We can feel confident and have excitement. We can trust, yet wonder.
We are in it together with them and even though we are not the ones starting school, the renewal is so for all of us.